Better Communication. Better Relationships.

Better Boundaries. Better Days Filled With Abundance + Success.

Available on April 20th
Preorder today for be part of the launch team.

BOUNDARY BOSS will show you how to authentically express your preferences, needs, and limits so you can live the happy, healthy life you deserve.

If you want to step into your true power in your life, you must know what you want and what you don’t want AND you must have the skills to effectively communicate your needs, desires and preferences.


Boundary Boss is for women who are exhausted from overgiving, overdoing and even over-feeling. You are getting it all done but at the expense of your wants and needs or playing small to keep the peace which leads to exhaustion and burn out, not the happy, healthy life you deserve.

So many of us believe that it’s our responsibility to keep life conflict-free and to do whatever it takes to fix everyone else’s problems…but then we wake up one day and realize that this precious, one-of-a-kind life is passing us by (and we are almost too tired to give a crap…almost but not quite).

What if you could learn a specific set of skills that could help you stop abandoning yourself for the sake of others (without guilt or drama) and get empowered to consciously take control of every aspect of your emotional, spiritual, physical, personal and professional life?

The happiest, most successful people on the planet all have one thing in common: the ability to create and communicate clear, healthy, concise boundaries. This ability is hands-down, the biggest game-changer when it comes to profound and lasting transformation.

Still, most of us were never taught how to effectively express our preferences, desires or deal-breakers. Instead, we hide our feelings behind passive-aggressive behavior, deny our own truths, or push our emotions down until we get depressed or so frustrated that we explode, destroying trust and relationships (and STILL don’t get our needs met!)

You’ve always put everyone else first.

Telling yourself, “As long as everyone else is happy, I’m OK.”

Dutiful daughter, partner, mother, sister, friend.

You find it difficult to say no, even when you want to.

Your friends and family consistently give you advice you didn’t ask for about how they think you should be, live, act, perform, and you’re drained from being criticized and misunderstood. But to say something wouldn’t be “nice” and you’re afraid sharing your truth might jeopardize the relationship or provoke confrontation.

You find a way to get it all done…but undoing yourself in the process and you’re left feeling run over, taken for granted, under appreciated for all that you do for the people in your life.

At the end of the day, you’re exhausted, and your mind tends to keep replaying conversations, ruminating about what you should or shouldn’t have said or projecting fearfully into the future.

The society we live in teaches us that forgoing our own needs, our own wants and our own feelings is a good thing. We are taught that putting other people first makes us good, giving and nice. Self-sacrifice is a virtue in so many cultures the world over…but the thing is…if you’re always putting yourself last…you end up living a life of someone else’s design.

And that’s a pre-paid ticket to that sinking feeling that you’ve lived everyone else’s life but your own.

If you want to step into your true power in your life, you must know what you want and what you don’t want AND you must have the skills to effectively communicate your needs, desires, limits and preferences.

  • Will uplift you beyond any limiting pre-programmed beliefs.
  • Will help you end behavioral patterns that push your happiness to the back of the line.
  • Will help you stand tall, speak truthfully and express your deepest wants and needs plus your simple preferences with ease, grace and (when appropriate) love. So you can: 
Design the life of your dreams.
The secret ingredient?
Boundary skills, language and strategies.


Preorder Boundary Boss from a bookseller of your choice (copy your order number)

Once you have your order number, return here and fill out your information to access gifts.

  • Advanced Online Digital Copy Of the Book
  • Livestream of Terri walking through each chapter of the book with you.
  • Private Facebook Group to ask questions and share your wins.
  • Membership Area complete with our popular course Boundary Palooza, which has helped 8000 students, with tips, scripts and strategies to strengthen your Boundaries and (finally) live free.
  • A ticket to the Boundary Boss Book Celebration.

The answers you seek and the solutions to your problems are always- and only- within you. Boundary Boss is the roadmap for you to GET there.

I got you, pal. And you got this.

Terri Cole is a licensed psychotherapist and global relationship and empowerment expert. For over two decades, Terri has worked with a diverse group of clients that includes everyone from stay-at-home moms to celebrities and Fortune 500 CEOs.

She has a gift for making complex psychological concepts accessible and actionable so that clients and students achieve sustainable change.

She inspires over 250,000 people weekly through her blog, social media platform, signature courses, and her popular podcast, The Terri Cole Show. Find out more at



“This powerful book is a clear path to deep healing work. If you’re ready for true emotional freedom, let Boundary Boss show you the way. And thank you, Terri Cole! Your brilliant (and often hilarious!) guidance is a blessing to us all.”


New York Times bestselling author

“This is a crash course in communication integrity—with so many clear and comforting techniques. Terri is a straight-talking psychotherapist who knows how to get us from unhealthy compromise to loving engagement.”


Creator of The Desire Map and Heart Centered

“Terri helps to make boundary setting tangible with practical steps to becoming a boundary boss. Her raw and relatable take on boundaries is a breath of fresh air. She presents clear guidelines on how to take boundaries to the next level.”


Trauma psychologist

“With Boundary Boss, powerhouse healer and transformational therapist Terri Cole serves up the psychologically savvy medicine that you need to step out of destructive habits, stop people-pleasing, and set your soul free.”


#1 New York Times bestselling author of The Universe Has Your Back

“If you struggle with boundaries and are in need of a compass, seek no more! Terri Cole’s exquisitely interesting, articulate, and profoundly practical Boundary Boss will rock your world. Her book masterfully engages the reader’s heart and mind, while arming and empowering their decisions to rise above their lifelong boundary-setting limitations.”


Author of The Human Magnet Syndrome

“In a brilliant balance of stories, instruction, and opportunities to re$ect, assess, and practice what we’re learning, Terri Cole has written the book on boundaries we’ve all needed for-friggin’-ever. Somehow she also managed to deliver it in a super- loving, straight-to-the-point style that makes this deep and delicate topic easy to digest and apply. Five Stars.”


Founder of the Institute for EMBODIED Living and Wild Soul Movement

“Terri Cole’s advice is game-changing! After having her on my Off the Gram podcast, I went home and broke up with a toxic friend, then wrote about it in my own book! Terri is the ultimate boundary boss and communication queen, and in this powerful book she shows us how to become the same. The world needs this book right now!”


Editor-In-Chief for Woman’s Day magazine and author of Your Fully Charged Life

“Riddle me this: How can you possibly chase your dreams if you’re bogged down by people-pleasing, codependent, and time-wasting tendencies of overworking and overfunctioning? Spoiler alert: You can’t. If you’re ready to create and live a life on YOUR terms, Boundary Boss is about to become your roadmap.”


Entrepreneur and host of the Online Marketing Made Easy podcast

“Most people don’t think about clear boundaries until they are violated. And then we feel stuck in our relationships. But imagine what your life would look like if someone had schooled you at an early age on the importance of boundaries and how to establish them? Terri Cole is that someone—and in Boundary Boss, she masterfully reveals how to find your most authentic voice, step into your power, and own your impact. You’ll feel like you’re being counseled by a dear, wise friend who truly has your back. This brilliant book is a must-read!”


Author of Sacred Powers


Where should I buy my book?

Please buy the book from the bookseller of your choice.

We have included many different resellers for you to choose from or you can purchase from a seller not on the list.

Any purchase of the book qualifies you for bonuses we are giving on the date you purchase.

Outside the U.S.?

Canada: Indigo 
Australia: Booktopia
Other countries: Book Depository

What formats are available?

The following formats are available for preorder right now, hardcover copy, audiobook, or Kindle eBook version.

Can I buy in bulk?

Yes! Please email for all of the details on placing a bulk order.

What if I want to buy from an online retailer not on your list?

We want you to preorder and purchase the book from the bookseller of your choice. Any preorder puchase will qualify you for any bonuses available at the time.

Tell me more about the bonuses.

The Boundary Boss Book Bonus has meditations, integration exercises, more boundary scripts and a workbook of the go deeper exercisees for you. 

How to claim my bonuses?

The first step is to order a book, ebook or audiobook, then return to this page and give us your order number. Once you’ve submitted your number, you will receive an email from us with instructions to access your bonuses. Be sure to save your receipt.

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